Resources for helping couples cope with illness
Beyond Chaos, by Gregg Piburn (Arthritis Foundation, 1999) $14.95 (800 207-8633)

Arthritis Today article:  Guide to Intimacy and Arthritis (Arthritis Foundation), free, 800 207-8633

Surviving Your Spouse’s Chronic Illness, by Chris McGonigle (Henry Holt, 1999)  $13.95, bookstores

Dirty Details: The Days and Nights of a Well Spouse, by Marion Cohen and Marty Krauss (Temple University Press) $18.95, bookstores

Mainstay:  For the Well Spouse of the Chronically Ill, by Maggie Strong (Bradford Books, 1997) $15, bookstores